The debate on whether men and women can be platonic friends seems to be eternal. At the risk of this possibly being the last blog I ever write becuz the lench mob has gotten a hold of me.... I am gonna step out on a limb and tell you the somewhat complete and honest truth about this matter. Ladies are you sure you're ready? REALLY REALLY sure? Okay here goes.... Can men and women be just friends? The answer is a resounding yes! But know that that 'yes' comes with one condition. What is this condition you may ask? The condition is this : Men and Women can be just friends, but women must keep in mind that given the right circumstances the man would almost ALWAYS let it go down. (Please take note that this is ALL my factual opinion, interpretation, and point of view on the situation. Also notice that I use words like'rarely', 'almost', 'pretty much', and 'probably'. Real non-committal type words, ya dig?) What are these circumstances you may ask? First, let me go back and preface this whole blog by saying that all that I've said thus far and all that I will say is with the presumption that ...

A friend taking a course on human sexuality recently had me take a brief survey concerning perceived notions of "promiscuity" and it got me to thinking. I answered the questions as honestly as possible and while I'm pretty sure I'm no saint,I know for damn sure I'mfar from being a304 . (That's old pager code for those not in the know.) So then that whole episode got me to thinkingaboutmy "number". And you know which "number" I speak of. Yes THAT number! Remember Chris Rock's bit about this? When the guy asks the girl her number and she tells him that it's two."Two?!!?!? Two!?!?!?!? I guess that's just how you raised!" he responds. Chris' point was that as far as men are concerned that ANY number a woman gives is gonna seem high b/c of the double standard that women are unfortunately burdened with. I think he exaggerated the point a bit for the sake of comedy but there was definitely truth there. As far as my personal number, Ithink it's safe to say that I'm never gonnado Wilt numbers. Hell, I hope to never even reach triplefigures let alone 5 figures. How the hell did dude even find time to play ball ...