Yesterday an article came out on msnbc.com entitled "Marriage Eludes High-Achieving Black Women". In this article two Yale researchers supposedly crunched some numbers, did some interviews, and came to the conclusion that the more educated and successful sisters became, the less likely they are to get married and have a family if they so choose.  Now maybe my c.o.n. spiracy spidey senses are off a bit but I saw so much innuendo and so many disturbing undertones in this article it literally fucked up my whole day. No for real....I was in a pissy mood for the remainder of the day! They said that single sisters were hesitant to have a child because they didnt wanna seem "ghetto", but when a single white women has a child she is deemed "liberal". Also that another reason for this trend is that there arent enough highly educated/accomplished brothers to go around. And the when the brothers are highly educated/accomplished they tend to "outmarry" AKA marry anybody else but a sister. I know propaganda when I read it dammit!!! Please heed the words of the great Chuck D yall....'Dont believe the hype'. "So THEY say we're running out of time/ We're running out of water/ We're running out of ...

She said "I don't know... This guy seems too nice. I'm suspicious." And I go "Well damn cant the brother just be genuinely nice?" Then she replies "Never came across that before. He gives compliments, he wants to see me. WTF?" Aint that something? The fact that he DOES give compliments and makes it known to her that he wants to see her makes her pump her brakes and put her guards up?!?!? That leads me to wonder what kinda behavior had she experienced before and began to take for "the norm" if those 2 genuine gestures throw her off course. In "Cant Get Enough Of Your Love Babe" Barry White has a line that goes "What kinda love is this that you're giving me?". I've always loved that line. You know you getting some real shit when you gotta step back and examine it like "Hold up! This is some new shit! I aint never been loved like this before! What kinda love did you say this was again?" lol I cant speak for anyone else but I dont know how NOT to wear my heart on my sleeve. If I'm digging on you, you'll know it. And most likely everyone around me will ...