1. "Ummmmm....I dont mean no harm/but ya boy Young Hov got a mean ol arm/and all the young ladies wanna lean on him/and I dont turn 'em away/Im like 'Bring them on'..." - Jay Z "Somebody's Girl" 2. I mean thats whateverybody thinks of me, right? lol 3. Obviously that whole perception of me irks me but oh well...what can you do but live your life, right? 4. This Ani lyric(@ No. 10) seems fitting but I'll refrain from blogging it for the 64,973 rd time 5. I'll say this though : Think/Believe what you wanna....but when I pop up all boo'd up all of a sudden, dont say I aint warn ya! 6. *steps down from soapbox* 7.Can anyone tell me whenthis Steve Harvey mania will be over with already? 8. Whose dumb ass idea was it to have him on BOTH 'GCI and V103 at the same damn time anyways? 9. .....and lemme find out that he jacked that book idea/title from someone else.... 10. "Procrastination is fear of success. People procrastinate because they're afraid of the success they know'll result if they move ahead now because success is heavy and carries responsibility. It is much easier to procrastinate and live on the 'someday I'll' philosophy." - ...

The debate on whether men and women can be platonic friends seems to be eternal. At the risk of this possibly being the last blog I ever write becuz the lench mob has gotten a hold of me.... I am gonna step out on a limb and tell you the somewhat complete and honest truth about this matter. Ladies are you sure you're ready? REALLY REALLY sure? Okay here goes.... Can men and women be just friends? The answer is a resounding yes! But know that that 'yes' comes with one condition. What is this condition you may ask? The condition is this : Men and Women can be just friends, but women must keep in mind that given the right circumstances the man would almost ALWAYS let it go down. (Please take note that this is ALL my factual opinion, interpretation, and point of view on the situation. Also notice that I use words like'rarely', 'almost', 'pretty much', and 'probably'. Real non-committal type words, ya dig?) What are these circumstances you may ask? First, let me go back and preface this whole blog by saying that all that I've said thus far and all that I will say is with the presumption that ...

"Dont do the crime/if you cant do the time/but Im rollin'/so thats a fucked up slogan!" - Ice Cube "We Had To Tear This Muthafucka Up" So as you may or may not have heard, Bernie Madoff, former head of the NASDAQ Stock Exchange was recently convicted of fraud, perjury, and a whole bunch of other shit. He pulled off the biggest caper in like all of history when he swindled hundreds of people out of anywhere between 50-65 BILLION dollars. Yes you read that right. I said BILLION with a 'B'!!!! He got everyone from big Hollywood stars to working class folks to non profit charities. He was found guilty of all charges and faces up to 150 years behind bars. He is 70 years old and quite frankly I hope his punk ass gets ALL 150 years. I hope when he does die that they leave his body in the cell for the duration of his sentence! And it might sound like Im being non-sensical but c'mon. You know the type of 'good ol boys' treatment these white collar criminals get. Their 'jail' be looking like a country club and shit. Dude stole 50 BILLION yo! Meanwhile mu'fuckin Craig who got ...

Okay so let's talk destiny my good people. You hear people say all the time that 'All things happen for a reason' and it's pretty damn easy to explain away things with that little saying but is it true? I'm not so sure. When someone is killed tragically.....especially a child...(hit by a car, stray bullet, falling ice even!) 'All things happen for a reason' does not do it for me. Im a firm believer in 'Life is what you make it'. I think we have more control over our lives and the things that transpire in it than we give ourselves credit for. So destiny? Ehhh.....Im not so convinced. It's all a balancing act really. The universe runs off of the concept of balance. You got joy and pain. Hot and cold. High and low. Rain and sunshine. I can go on but you get the point, right? We need both of those things. Just like we need both skill and luck. You gotta know when to push and when to pull. When to take the lead and when to let things fall into place. Balance I say!!!! Are you meant to be with the person you are with? Are you destined to be with ...